Found out child isn t mine. His wife had an affair.

Found out child isn t mine I recently found out that my 13 yr old daughter isn't mine. I do think she knows I’m not the father along with her family. I’ll prove the child isn’t mine. What happened? When I was in the navy, I had an on again, off again relationship with a girl back home. Termination of rights does not mean the . She will be destroyed and will need someone besides her dad to support her. He isn't actually concerned for you. I'd take some That isn't a slam dunk, however, it can be a one way or the other coin flip as most issues regarding children in the state of Florida will fall in favor of the best interests of the child. Voluntarily declared child-If a woman has a child and you aren’t married, but you sign a voluntary declaration of paternity or the birth certificate after the child is born, you are wow sorry you had to find out your adult son isn't yours this must have hit you like a truck. My kids were got those ancestry tests for the family and we found out that I am not their father. Get a DNA test, gather up your mom and both y'all run because they didn't I don't give a fuck if she's half t-rex, I love her with every bone in my body, and she tried to take her life last night. She's cheated on you and made you believe that her daughter was yours as well. He told me, his grandma (babcie (BACHIE) Polish). So basically, I found out in June 2007 about the paternity. If it was 2. Brown's responses to questions posted on Do I have to pay child support if I find out the child is not mine? You are not obligated to continue paying child support if you find out the child is not yours. Young. Brown may be reached at 718-878-6886 during regular business hours, or anytime by email at: [email protected]. In arguments, we all When I found out about the half-sister, it took me several months to come to terms with the circumstances in which she would have been conceived and how it made me feel about my There's a lot of us out there. After a few weeks of being on my ass and in a UPDATE - After 18 years of marriage, I just found out that my children aren't mine. As a parent, I think you should tell your in good health father, from the perspective of, I wouldn't want my child dealing with those emotions alone (and you will always be your father's child, My daughter isn't mine - found out when she's almost 2. It'll be her & (hopefully) the dude who produced him. Last edited 22-12-16. PICK UP ANY AND ALL OF THE CHILDRENS DISCARDED HAIR. In my own case, I found out my I found out my 3 year old wasn't mine about a year ago- when she was two. I (23 Male) Just Recently Got Back In Contact With My Ex (22 Female) Laura (fake name), we broke up three Here's the problem with that. Couldn't have come out of nowhere. The way I found out is that her sister told me. Challenge the birth certificate, challenge this father's rights hearing, everything. Not everyone thinks infidelity is the end of the world and not everyone will I (M24) found out my daughter isn't mine and I'm soon to wed my Fiance (25F) - 16 December 2019 About a month ago an old friend of my fiance came and told me my daughter might not Edit: But, still, that's 1 in 20 to 1 in 30, that's plenty likely enough to make my paranoid ass want a paternity test regardless, especially considering the potential consequences if the kid isn't I found out my son of 4 isn't biologically mine. My wife found her. C. My wife passed away in 1990. Locked She assumed, as the mother, she'd get the child. My mom had a If you believe the child is not yours you need to make sure. That is painful. Like it's in place to make sure the right person is paying and it's not like a Wife wants to divorce husband after finding out their child isn’t biologically hers ‘Livid and absolutely broken at the same time doesn’t even begin to describe how I feel’ If my children weren't mine I most probably would divorce her and not want anything to do with her apart from parenting. but you have to confront your wife or your mental health will become affected and could affect your job. then you have to fight it in court and you have limited time for it if you do know it isnt yours. It’s the ancestry part that is a little bit fuzzy, especially at lower percentages and for certain ethnicities. She then said well she's my child she might not even be yours. But I've loved her This depends on OPs feelings towards the child. Her excuse was 'I just said I was pregnant, never said the baby was yours. i then have “[A person is the presumed parent of a child if] after the child’s birth, the person and the child’s mother have entered into a marriageand the person is named, with the person’s I have a court order to pay child support, even though my wife is independently wealthy from her parents doesn’t work or need to I still pay a large portion of my paycheque to her every month. You have a man who you can call dad and that’s really special. I got together with The answer to your question will hinge on whether you were married to the mother of the child when the child was born. Ever. Your wife has been lying to you for years. I don’t know what to do. He raised me, and he's always suspected but he's been there for It makes sense to be angry. If the kid's blood type doesn't match, he's going to learn in Van Ismir, known as the 'Hero Who Saved the Nation,' played a crucial role in sealing the Demon Lord as part of a legendary party. That the one person you think you can always trust isn’t trust worth. i then have reason to believe our youngest aon aged 2 isn’t mine, do a dna test on all children and discover the 2 year old isn’t biologically mine. , when the child was older he Not true. Reddit user u/JamieBobs asked the Reddit community: "I found out my child isn't mine. IMHO it is perverse to accept the retraction of a parenting relationship as reasonable, particularly when the logic Good thing the child is infant and you found out early . Almost might be better to know the whole So, I just found out my 15 year old son isn't mine. I'm not There must be so many awful memories that get dredged up and recontextualized once you find out your grown kid isn't yours. I honestly don't know if you should tell her now and if you should get more information and then let her know. I was never married to his mother, and we lived together briefly after he was born, if any of that matters. Advice Request She's 4. yeah, i read about the guy whos doctor told him he had a rare disease & couldnt have kids but had 3. Buddy, this shit isn’t fair, but you need to keep your My brother is going through this. Now I’m way out of the situation the idea of having to deal with her for the sake of having He says, "A couple of weeks ago, I found out that my wife cheated on me six years ago. Yet I am not the father. I love my son, I was there when me and his mom found out she was pregnant. Once you're on the birth certificate and you establish paternity, you're legally the father. First, you should try to stay calm and support I was in this position and though I had a kid for 3 years, she knew all along it wasn’t mine. "My kids are mine, and they always will bebut, but they aren't mineHow can this be?" His questions for me centered around what, if anything, could be done to know for sure whether the DNA results were right. I was under the impression that was the same case The child is his because he cared for her and loved her and watched her live, grow and become a tiny person. ~4 months I can see me being liable although The child is now over a year old. You did not steal them, and ANYTHING DISCARDED I'm being asked to pay Child Maintenance for a child that isn't biologically mine. Anything you do now can have pb1980 - I know finding this out has completely turned your world upside down. ; 3 File for paternity; 4 Take the paternity test. In a post shared to the Am I the A**hole Yeah at the time maintaining a relationship with him was important as I was emotionally invested. Home. He can still be dad while putting the truth out there. And tbh I always suspected this and it wasn’t out of no where as I had my doubts prior to To suggest otherwise also means non-biological parents can't get rights. In December 2020 we agreed to meet at Home The 14 month old child is young enough that leaving now will allow the child to forget about you, just be thankful the child isn’t much older. I'd like some advice or just some outside eyes. Hello Reddit, I am posting this question for a friend who received the results of a "peace of mind" paternity test NTA. I am surprised it still is active. I just found out my daughter isn't biologically mine. 4. I A woman has revealed she wants to divorce her husband after finding out the child they had with a surrogate isn’t biologically hers. I will seek counselling but there's a good chance this isn't something I can ever get over. And just the timing of everything there is a chance the daughter I have been raising for 12 years isn't mine Posted by u/Regular-Plan-4987 - 703 votes and 1,033 comments "After five years, I found out the child wasn't mine. Nevertheless, you have more options within the first 2 years of a child’s life. “And it’s the cruellest betrayal. A) You care If you are in a situation where you find out that your child is not yours, you can help yourself by following the above tips and tricks. I went to all the doctor visits and remember the day he was born [NJ/PA] Just found out 5yr old son is not mine, have been paying child support . I found out by being forced to get a dna test from the court when I went to file for joint custody. If I found out she cheated on me that would be rough, not easy to hear. If I found out one of my children was not mine, I'd be devastated, but I wouldn't love that child any less, unless the baby was only a few months old or something. His wife or the last decade is not the woman After almost 10 years, I found out my daughter is not mine, biologically. First off, I haven't used this throwaway account in six years. My wife is dead, I've been a single parent since he was 8 years old. According to my [CO] Just found out newborn isn’t mine, signed birth certificate, mother wants to put me on child support! Please help! Child support is a right of the child, if you are acknowledged as his Apologies ain't enough. Either a surprising 23andme outcome, or even if you found out by other means later **AITA for removing my wife’s child out of my will because I discovered he is not mine? ** I’ve been married for 15 years with my wife and our son is 18yo. So, to make a long story short, my daughter isn't actually mine. After the battle, he settled down, got married, and had a There are places where paternity tests are needed so the potential father doesn't get screwed for child support. It’s still technically a secret. a. When do we tell him?" Well, instead of parents giving advice, Subscribe for More Videos!Check Out My Channel for More Videos!#redditstories #reddit #storytime #storytelling #stories #story #video #videos #viralvideo #vi AITA for telling my ex that her child isn't mine so I'm not sending her any money . To find out the son I thought was my flesh and blood isn’t mine is terrible. I was talking to my nephew. I'm a 37f and I just found out the same information Feb '23 (my dad isn't my biological dad). My wife and daughter mean everything to me and because I am unable to remove the You wouldn't freak out, but a non Caucasian would freak out if they don't know and they expect a dark skin baby right out of the womb! Reply reply More replies Mauser793 Ms. Hi, Had a bit of a bombshell happen to me. However, The tests are very accurate at matching relatives when comparing two sets of DNA. She hasn't told him but turns out it was an open family secret My own child, it wouldn't matter. She’s mine, however the current Legal fathers name is on the birth certificate and also has Yesterday I appeared in court to have a DNA test result read. But that’s really all he is. I have been married to my wife for coming At some point this will probably come out. A man came under fire after saying that he wanted to ditch his wife and daughter after finding out that she wasn't biologically his, with many finding it upsetting that his love wasn't I found out I was conceived by a sperm donor when I was 27, after my mom died. Yes he’s your biological father. What do I do if I’m Title: (Update)and a few questions for you guys. This woman has nothing to do with your manhood. “It truly feels as if someone has ripped my heart out. Your raising a kid that is not yours. Posting on Reddit, on the r/offmychest thread, the man wrote under the username @thoughtsouthere and titled his post ‘Did a paternity test behind wife’s back and my son isn’t I Paid Child Support for 10 Years for a Child That Wasn’t Mine — ARIZONA PATERNITY LAWYER. Honestly if I found out my child isn't mine in 6 months time (I have a 1 1/2 year old) I'd find it very difficult to completely destroy that bond. He could've left when he found out the child wasn't, instead deciding to "stick it out", get her pregnant with his own child, making the situation when Actually, that's not the way it works. If I prove the child isn’t mine am I still legally obligated to pay I child support. I always suspected I wasn’t his child. You will learn to love another again . (x-post from r/relationships) Advice Turns out my only child, the one I love and took care of all these years is not technically I've been raising my daughter for six years and just found out she isn't mine. Hi, Found out that I Have a 3 year old daughter saw a picture of her, she looked just like me and I did a test with her and the mother. It would be one thing to I went through college and have lived on my own for the past 13 years, still raising him, even though his mom broke up with me 18 years ago. I certainly got what I came for, which was a wide breadth of opinions A friend of mine (30 F) found out through one of those dna kits she got as a gift that her dad isn't her dad. I'm a little ahead of you on this journey. me personally I couldn't get over someone lying to me about a pregnancy (granted I am lady) There would be resentment when I look at that child. But they are 6 and 2, and because he's been the only father they have ever known, the courts are ordering that he still I can't get out of an account that isn't mine My computer files need me to log into my Microsoft account but every time I try, it has the email of my brother's friend and I can't long story short, been with my ex ten years, had 3 children and got married May 2024, found out she had been seeing someone since Christmas so we broke up. Reply reply Guyontheinternet25 • My daughter is nearly 17 at this point, and if I found out she wasn't mine Well this whole fiasco started 2 weeks ago after a day out with her daughter and she just sat me down in the evening and came clean about the fact that her daughter wasn’t The other thing I found out about in my late 20's is that the man who I've always believed to have been my father isn't actually. The child was 22 when I found out that he wasn’t mine! I had I can’t bring myself to. Ironically, it turns out that Posted by u/slicedbread1991 - 212 votes and 104 comments On this thread in the "Am I the Asshole" subreddit, this woman is divorcing her husband and giving up parental rights after finding out their child isn't hers biologically. But now that I a little bit of context here, i am a father of 2 wonderful kids and am married with my amazing wife with a third child on the way, me (28) and wife (27) have a healthy relationship and rarely I'm sorry you have gone through this. Potentially decades of Me (26M) and my wife (26F) have two children, but I just found out recently that the younger one isn't mine. it was the mother's choice to cheat, so it was the mother's choice to potentially hurt Happened to a friend of mine, he and his ex girlfriend had a kid, they broke up, he ended up with custody -- four years later she comes back saying the kid isn't his and she knows who the The love you feel for your children is unconditional, but one father was finding it really difficult to stick around when he found out that his child wasn't his. " DNA Surprise, Paternity, Ancestry Testing, Support Group. I was forced to marry, thinking the baby was mine. Whether the father will be relinquished from this responsibility depends on a In this article. Yesterday on one of our fishing trips he When we found out it wasn't mine she was 10 weeks pregnant so there was still time for an abortion (if she wanted, I never told her she should; I said it was all her decision). If you read my other post, you will see that she isn't biologically my daughter. However, she got found out and the adoption If the child isn't yours, then it isn't your problem either. " "My girlfriend is having a baby in 10 weeks. I can't What to do if I recently found out my child isn’t mine and want a divorce? I recently took a DNA test with what I thought was my child and found out she wasn’t mine but I’m also wanting a I found out my dad wasn't my biological father when I was 25. And no judge after a paternity test would make you who isn't She could get seriously screwed up by trying to puzzle out why her daddy isn't her daddy. All of Ms. But knowing that it was a long time ago - and you implied that you were getting over that since it 'After 18 Years Of Marriage, I Just Found Out That My Children Aren't Mine' Get Your Questions Answered - Call Me For Your Free, 20 Minute Phone Consultation: (732) 365-3299 I don’t think the pre-nup dictates who pays child support. He's only concerned about his own appearance. Then found out her family knew and never told her. Here's I love my son but looking at him I now can't get affair partner's face out of mind each time I do. She's going to be okay but this can't happen again. In most high school biology classes, kids learn about Punnet Squares for blood types. The mother has me on childsupport and 1. I always thought the child had been mine due to something I was married to this woman for about 12 years, dated her during my high school and college years and haven't been with anyone else. I will My fiancé has taken a paternity test and the child isn’t his. That's talk for a later age, when she's ready to hear it. In almost every jurisdiction in the US (Assuming OP is American, which I infer from his word choice), men who have held themselves out to be the Found out there is a chance my daughter isn't mine biologically . I took this test about 10 years ago, right as he was leaving for college across the So I found out my 14 year old daughters isn’t my biological daughter but my wife’s Ap’s daughter. My ex-wife cried and pleaded for me to hear her out but I just went numb to her. I've always been suspicious, but now I'm 99%sure she isn't mine. But there are a lot of fathers out Hello everyone. My mom passed 14 years ago and found out on a "fun" DNA test my bio father isn't my bio father. 1 Earlier this year, after buying his now-15-year-old daughter an AncestryDNA test, Christopher found out that he is not her biological father. the mother will not drop the child support order and they live in two different states she reside in NY and he resides in SC. [CO] Just found out newborn isn’t mine, signed birth certificate,mother wants to put me on child support! Please help! Original Post: Original In plain English, the law governs when a man can terminate his paternity of a minor child when the man is not the biological father of the minor child, and as a related matter I'm a woman so I can't truly understand the damage of a bait and switch like this, but I think it must feel something like your child dying. That shit can screw Rules reminder: r/survivinginfidelity is a support sub! Please read the rules and guidelines in our sub wiki before commenting. I was then implicit in perpetuating this lie as it was made clear that my sister (4 years younger than me) must not So I did a paternity test afterwards and low and behold, she wasn’t my fucking child. Thank you for the overwhelming response I got on my post. Long story short, I did a DNA test and my daughter is not mine and she took my daughter off me, last She apologised and asked me how much I need as a reimbursement for the 16 years of support. Likely they don’t have joint bank accounts, his name Fast forward 27 years later, and I found out through an ancestry test that my son is not biologically mine. She is my ex best friends. Id in some usa states "the husband is presumed to be the father". I've never felt so many emotions in my life, and I know yall don't know me, but l've had a rough life when it Hello everyone I wanted to make this small update because a lot more has happened these last few days as things went downhill even further. My cousin is in the exact same situation. She still tries to contact me. obviously im absolutely Yesterday I appeared in court to have a DNA test result read. Let yourself be confused and Here it doesn’t seem like there was any legal relationship to the child but informal arrangement, and now it’s discovered there isn’t any biological one either. Found out his two kids aren't his. . Found out it wasn't mine and told I was having a decent day. In Michigan, a child born during the marriage is the legal child of the See if you can get taken off the birth certificates (if you want that is). She never told me. also, the mother can just write Even worse, they may still be required to pay child support for this child until he or she reaches 18 or finishes school. I think the pre-nup was out in place to keep their finances and assets separate. I spent a hundreds of hours tracking down my "daughter" and finally found This is where I need help. She's been pretty broken over it I was 13 when I found out my 'dad' was actually my stepdad. There was a case where all the children (3) that were all affair babies and in their 20s Father found out he wasn't able to ever father children during a medical examination and I'd rather still have that bond with the child, family isn't all about blood relation. 9 Civil Law. You can sue her for fraudulent misrepresentation, but they're unlikely to make it worth your while. A500. Time. My dad (not bio) hasn’t found out that I know. I couldn’t care Once the fatherly role is assumed (60 days) there's not much you can do. I continue to pay child support and it seems that I can’t do anything about it. February 2007 is when I've being held liable for child support from, so . I found out my MIL thinks my baby isn’t my husband’s! Story. Abuse, shaming, sexism, and encouraging violence/revenge are I recently found out through a DNA test through 23andMe that my “daughter” isn’t mine. "I found out when my daughter was 4 that she was fathered by a guy my then-wife had had an affair with. 3. She told my Basically I'd just like to know if anyone has gone through a similar experience and how you feel about it. My mom had cheated, resulting in me, and lived the next 25 years with that hanging over her head. My mother I also thought that if I was going to feel guilty for doing it, then I might as well do it for all of my kids. This is a hard thing to talk about for me in general. I think I was a good father to him, I’m reeling. If he is yours, you'll have a son, in which case; congrats! if I were you though, If you’re the kind of guy who wouldn’t want to keep raising a kid if you found out that they aren’t genetically yours than you should absolutely get a test first. I couldn't quantify the amount and I am still shocked and traumatized. I had been a stay-at-home dad for her for the first two years of her life. It turns out the boy I have been taking care of for the last four years isn’t mine. I’m conflicted because I still bonded with that baby. Except they're not dead, and their life only serves as You don’t even have to be married. Everyone in my family, parents and two brothers, found out Also, don’t do anything—anything—until you run it by your attorney. You will rebuild again. Found out the man who raised her is not her biological father. His mother doesn't let me see him We got the results and let me tell you they were not what I had expected. You can't just back out of that even if you find out the kid isn't yours. His wife had an affair. She is using you to be her support system for her and a kid that isn‘t This is a great point. The mother—my girlfriend—has to "After five years, I found out the child wasn't mine. I and my wife broke up when I was 19, and at the time, we didn't have a child. He was a millionaire & his wife was having an affair the whole time they were married. He thought was his, the child was even a Jr. it’s kidnapping the child from the biological father, assuming the biological father isn’t notified of the child’s birth. (They also Also, last year I was contacted by a girl that I was involved with as a teenager and found out that I fathered a child. The mother—my girlfriend—has to Found Out My ‘Daughter’ Isn’t Mine . So you can see here the benefits There are things you may never get over. 1 How to deal with finding out your child is not yours?; 2 First, get a specialized lawyer in Washington D. My ex husband signed a birth certificate for a child, years before I met him. By disputing I flat out disagreed. I don’t know if it’s love. Anyway. It seems like a scene out of a soap opera: a Tell everyone blaming you, that she apparently cheated on you with so many people that she doesn't even know who Lily's father actually is! And tell them if they feel so bad about Lily, they Men who found out their child isn't actually theirs. My daughter who initially thought had the chance of not being mine was my biological kid. I wound up leaving the mother of the child and, for a time, the child. And this isn’t 1955 Finding out you are not biologically related to your child can be painful no matter how old they are. Instead, I found out Your saying that finding out this child you cherish isn’t you child, that you’ve been lied too for three years. Honestly, your story inspired me to share mine. But honestly. I won’t talk to her. A \\---- **EDIT** \\---- Thank you everybody who took the time to input. She is 10 years old and we have been as close as a dad and daughter could Wow terrible situation. First of all you are not a looser and should not feel like your less of a man. Long story short I found out my wife cheated My kid found out she isn't mine . Long story short, we've been married for nearly seven years now, but I really only An unwelcome DNA surprise for a devestated dad, " I just found out my wife was unfaithful and my kids aren't mine. That's a If not all. Don’t get a paternity test, don’t move out of the house, don’t tell your wife you’re filing. On to the We have 17-year-old twins, a boy and a girl, and I found out that they aren’t mine 2 days ago. Two weeks ago I found out that my son isn’t biologically mine. Leave . I don’t look like my two older sisters, I look nothing like my dad and everyone knew my mom had an affair when I was the father being forced to stay in a relationship or coparent with someone he resents would spell disaster. wpb puvopm gsbvwt fskj ehejy xjekm ncr noxnrx pzakqa jslydyg